A relationship doesn't have to be a permanent relationship. You can take patience and warmth and all the good things that you can get from it, and enjoy them while they last, without having to commit to this is all there is ever going to be. If you're worried about leading her on, then tell her how you feel, and then let her decide if that's something she wants to be a part of.
Also, could you not start saving up for, say, a week in New York? It's not cheap, but it's also not something that's so expensive that you couldn't save up for it by putting a little bit aside every week. Having a definite goal to work towards like that is always helpful.
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regna
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Date: 2009-11-23 04:49 am (UTC)Also, could you not start saving up for, say, a week in New York? It's not cheap, but it's also not something that's so expensive that you couldn't save up for it by putting a little bit aside every week. Having a definite goal to work towards like that is always helpful.