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a sky gone on fire ([personal profile] askygoneonfire) wrote2014-01-20 11:27 pm
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 Nobody ever tells you that when you get older you get less hung up on your body

Like I'm slightly saggy and squashy as I head to 30, and that's mostly fine. And if people have an issue with the fact I can rarely be arsed to shave my legs I'm more than happy to take them on. Actually, to destroy them. Just try and shame my body, you try it.

It's sort of freeing.
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[personal profile] incarnated_joy 2014-01-21 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
I'm finding much the same. I'm at the heaviest weight I've ever been, and frankly I've given up on a lot of old compulsive habits I had over hair removal. The other day my husband told me I've become more attractive in the last year or so, mostly because I've stopped giving a shit. Confidence is a strange and alien creature, but I'm slowly learning to love it.